Why You Shouldn't Call Women Out: A Red Pill Perspective

Understanding the Dynamics of Calling Women Out on Their Behavior

When men discover the red pill philosophy, they gain insights into female behavior and dating dynamics. This newfound knowledge often leads to recognizing certain behaviors or 'tests' from women. The question then arises: Should you call women out on their behavior?

The Short Answer: No

Calling women out, especially on manipulative or testing behaviors, is generally seen as counterproductive. Here's why:

1. It Reveals Previous Bad Experiences

• Telling women about past manipulations you've faced inadvertently shows you've been treated as a low priority before. This can diminish your value in their eyes, as it suggests other women have seen you as less desirable.

• An analogy is drawn with personal experiences, such as dealing with moving companies or returning equipment, illustrating how past negative experiences can influence future actions and expectations.

2. It Makes You Appear Jaded

• Being jaded is different from having bad experiences. It's about carrying that negativity and suspicion into every new interaction or relationship, which can make you less attractive.

• It's suggested that while certain precautions, like getting agreements in writing from service providers, are wise, applying a jaded outlook to dating can push people away.

3. Women Respond to Actions, Not Words

• If a woman's behavior is disrespectful or not aligning with your expectations, the recommended approach is to adjust the amount of time and attention you give her rather than confronting her verbally.

• The principle here is that actions speak louder than words. If she values your time and attention, she'll adjust her behavior accordingly.

4. Avoid Letting Her Know You're Following Dating Advice

• Mentioning or showing that you're consuming dating advice can lead women to believe you're not naturally adept at dating, which might lower their attraction.

• It's better to keep your knowledge and strategies to yourself, acting naturally rather than letting on that you've been seeking help to improve your dating life.

5. It Doesn't Increase Attraction

• Calling someone out for their behavior often comes from a place of frustration or annoyance, which is unlikely to make you more attractive in their eyes.

• It can also make you seem argumentative, which is not a trait that fosters attraction or affection.

Conclusion: Focus on Actions

The overarching message is that men should focus on their actions and how they respond to women's behaviors rather than attempting to confront or change those behaviors through discussion. This approach aligns with red pill views on maintaining frame and demonstrating high value through behavior rather than confrontation.

In essence, the path to better interactions and relationships with women lies not in calling them out but in embodying the qualities they find attractive and responding to their actions with your own, measured actions.

For more detailed insights, check the original video discussion here.