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Start for freeImproving your social skills involves a multifaceted approach that touches upon your actions, the things you say, and how others perceive you. By mastering these three areas, you can significantly enhance your appeal and become more attractive to women. Let's delve into each category and explore practical strategies to elevate your social prowess.
Master Your Social Actions
The Right Gaze for the Right Woman
Eye contact is a powerful tool in communication, especially when interacting with women. It's essential to use the appropriate gaze based on the context of your interaction:
- Business Gaze: Use this in professional settings. Focus on the upper region of her face, including her eyes and lower forehead.
- Social Gaze: Ideal for informal settings like parties or dinners. Look into the middle region of her face, from her eyes down to her upper lip.
- Intimate Gaze: Reserved for women you're sexually interested in. Your gaze should include everything from her eyes down to her upper chest, with a focus on the middle lip region.
The Right Touch for the Right Woman
Physical contact can significantly impact your interactions. An Oxford University study revealed where women feel comfortable being touched, depending on their relationship with the person. As a general rule:
- For strangers, limit contact to handshakes.
- For friends, it's acceptable to touch her hands, arms, shoulders, and face.
Elevate Your Social Performance
Speak Like Elon Musk
Contrary to popular belief, speaking less can make you more attractive. Inspired by Elon Musk's interviewing style, use the deep breath technique. Take a moment to breathe and think before responding, allowing you to be direct and concise.
Maintain Your Appearance
Your appearance influences how your words are perceived. Keeping a well-groomed appearance, including managing your hairline, can boost your confidence and appeal.
Leverage the Halo Effect**
The halo effect causes people to associate positive attributes with attractive individuals. Ensuring you always look your best can help you benefit from this cognitive bias.
Focus on Social Adjustment
Test Your Testosterone Levels
Your health, closely linked to testosterone levels, plays a crucial role in social adjustment. High testosterone levels are associated with confidence, which is attractive in social settings.
Improve Your Social Presence
Building a high-quality social circle can enhance your social value. Engage in activities like martial arts or networking events to meet and befriend influential individuals.
By mastering these three categories of social skills, you'll not only improve your interactions with women but also become a more charismatic and appealing individual overall. Remember, practice and consistency are key to developing and maintaining these skills.
For more detailed insights and examples, watch the full video here: Master Your Social Skills.