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Start for freeLife often presents itself as a complex game, filled with rules that aren't immediately clear. As we navigate through this game, gaining experiences and learning from both our successes and failures, we find ourselves becoming wiser and more adept at handling what comes our way. This journey of growth and understanding is not linear but rather a continuous process of evolution that touches every aspect of our lives, including how we manage emotions and interact with others, especially our children.
Emotions and Parenting
A poignant example of this growth can be seen in the way we handle our emotions, particularly anger. The initial reaction to situations that trigger anger can often be to suppress or, conversely, to express it in ways that can be harmful or demeaning. However, as one evolves, the approach to dealing with such emotions also changes. An enlightening moment comes when we ask ourselves and our children how we wish to be treated and how we should treat others in moments of frustration or anger. The realization that raising our voice or expressing anger does not make anyone feel safe leads to exploring healthier ways to manage and move through emotions. This could mean opting for activities that help dissipate anger, such as taking a bath, riding a bike, or simply sitting quietly and reflecting.
Learning Through Dialogue
Engaging in open dialogues with children about how to handle emotions and the importance of respecting our living spaces teaches valuable lessons. It's crucial to address issues not with anger but with understanding and a willingness to listen and learn from one another. This approach fosters a sense of safety, respect, and mutual growth. It illustrates that wisdom is often found in the dirt of our experiences, through a process of trial and error, success, and failure.
The Path to Wisdom
Songs and stories often reflect the themes of our lives, and in this instance, two songs encapsulate the journey of understanding and growth. One song, reminiscent of Mr. Rogers, delves into what to do with the anger we feel. The other, by Atlas Sound featuring Leticia Sadier, speaks to finding wisdom through the process of success and failure. These themes resonate deeply with the notion that saints and wise individuals are not born but are made through their experiences.
Shifting Perspectives
The stories we're told as children, about saints and mystics, often paint a picture of these individuals as being born perfect and unblemished. However, the truth is that we all come into this world as pure beings, and it's through our experiences that we learn, grow, and evolve. Recognizing that we are not fixed in our ways but are capable of growth and change is a powerful realization. It allows us to see ourselves and others as works in progress, constantly evolving towards greater understanding and compassion.
Walking as Saints
To walk as saints does not mean to claim superiority or holiness over others but to move through the world with compassion and love. It involves seeing the child in everyone, recognizing that we are all still learning and growing. In moments of frustration or anger, it's an opportunity to teach and to learn, to kneel down and see eye to eye, and to communicate with kindness and understanding. This approach does not diminish but rather raises both ourselves and those around us.
Building Community and Understanding
The journey of personal evolution is not one we walk alone. It's about connecting with others, sharing experiences, and growing together. As we learn and evolve, we have the opportunity to influence the world positively, reaching places and people we might never physically meet but can touch through our shared consciousness and understanding. The goal is to build a community that uplifts and supports one another, creating a world where compassion, love, and understanding are the foundations upon which we build our lives.
In conclusion, life's complexities and challenges are not obstacles but opportunities for growth, learning, and deeper understanding. By embracing our experiences, managing our emotions with compassion, and connecting with others, we can navigate this journey with wisdom and grace. Let's walk this path together, evolving, growing, and raising the world around us.
