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Start for freeKeeping the Conversation Flowing: The Art of Masculine Frame
When engaging in conversations with women, whether it's on the phone, through texting, or on a date, a key strategy to keep in mind is maintaining a masculine frame. This approach not only preserves sexual tension but also keeps the interaction interesting and captivating.
Why Let Her Do Most of the Talking?
One fundamental principle to remember is that ideally, she should be doing 90% of the talking, and you, only about 10%. This is not about being disinterested or passive but about avoiding the pitfall of revealing too much. The more you talk, the higher the risk of diminishing her interest. It's akin to interacting with the police; the less you say, the better.
The Power of Questions
Instead of dominating the conversation, focus on asking questions. This strategy encourages her to share more about herself, keeping her engaged and interested. It's crucial, however, to remain within your masculine frame, avoiding a shift into a more platonic, friendly vibe that can dilute the sexual tension.
Masculine Frame vs. Feminine Frame
Maintaining a masculine frame means keeping your cool, calm, and collected demeanor. It involves speaking in a lower, more seductive tone rather than a high-pitched, overly enthusiastic one that might signal nervousness or insecurity. This balanced approach prevents the conversation from steering into a friend zone territory.
The Fine Line Between Mysterious and Boring
While it's beneficial to be somewhat mysterious, there's a thin line between being intriguingly reserved and outright boring. Being too laid-back or quiet can be just as detrimental as oversharing. The goal is to be engaging, leading the conversation with interesting questions and follow-ups without dominating it.
High-Value Mentality
A high-value individual naturally maintains a masculine frame because of their confidence and self-assurance. This stems from a strong sense of self-worth, cultivated through personal achievements and self-improvement. When you truly believe in your value, staying relaxed and confident in interactions becomes second nature.
Texting Strategy
When it comes to texting, the recommendation is to minimize it and focus on setting up in-person interactions. Texting should primarily serve the purpose of arranging dates or calls. If a woman initiates contact, it's a positive indicator of her interest, but it's crucial to not appear overly available by responding immediately. Delaying your response by a few hours can enhance your perceived value.
Phone Conversations
Phone conversations should be concise, especially in the early stages. If she's genuinely interested, she'll likely do most of the talking. If you find yourself struggling to keep the conversation going, it could be a sign of her low interest. In such cases, it's better to pull back and focus on those who are more eager to engage with you.
Handling Personal Questions
When faced with personal questions, especially regarding your dating life or sexual history, it's advisable to deflect politely. Claiming these topics as personal and changing the subject maintains your privacy and keeps the conversation from veering into uncomfortable territory.
Conclusion
Maintaining a masculine frame during conversations with women is about balancing intrigue and engagement. It's about being confident, not overly talkative, and leading the interaction with thoughtful questions. By embracing a high-value mentality and focusing on personal growth, you naturally become more attractive and engaging, making every conversation an opportunity to deepen connection and attraction.
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