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In the world of dating, women often employ various tests to gauge a man's value and confidence. These tests are usually subconscious, meaning women may not even be aware they're doing them. However, understanding and passing these tests can significantly increase your success in dating.
The Importance of an Abundance Mindset
Before diving into specific tests and how to pass them, it's crucial to emphasize the importance of having an abundance mindset. This means:
- Not being overly invested in any one woman
- Believing you have multiple options
- Being willing to walk away if necessary
Without this mindset, it becomes nearly impossible to pass women's tests consistently. You'll be too afraid of losing her and end up being overly compliant.
Self-Improvement: The Foundation of Confidence
To truly adopt an abundance mindset, you need to put in the work on yourself. This includes:
- Working on your physical appearance
- Advancing your career
- Developing interesting hobbies and skills
- Building a social circle
When you've done the groundwork to improve yourself, you'll naturally exude more confidence. This makes passing tests much easier, as you'll genuinely believe you have options.
Common Tests and How to Pass Them
The Scheduling Test
One of the first tests you'll encounter happens before you even go on a date. When trying to schedule, she might say something like "We'll see" or "I'll let you know."
How to pass:
- Don't chase or follow up repeatedly
- Simply say "Okay, let me know when you're free"
- Wait 2-3 weeks before trying to schedule again
- Continue living your life and dating other women in the meantime
The Time Change Test
On the day of the date, she might try to change the agreed-upon time.
How to pass:
- Stand firm on the original time
- Say something like "I have plans after our date, so I can't change the time. If that doesn't work for you, we can reschedule for another day"
- Be willing to actually reschedule if necessary
The Lateness Test
Even if she agrees to the original time, she might show up late to see how you react.
How to pass:
- Address it calmly but firmly
- Say something like "I don't like waiting on people. Next time, let's make it the first round of drinks is on you if you're late"
- Don't be angry or emotional, just matter-of-fact
The Compliance Test
During the date, she might try to see how compliant you are by:
- Disagreeing with your opinions
- Asking you to hold her purse
- Trying to get you to try something you've said you don't like
How to pass:
- Stand firm in your opinions and preferences
- Don't be argumentative, but don't change your stance just to please her
- Politely decline requests that make you uncomfortable
The Emotional Stability Test
She might try to provoke an emotional reaction by:
- Making a disparaging comment about your clothes or appearance
- Saying something controversial
- Mentioning other men
How to pass:
- Remain calm and unbothered
- Respond with humor or playful banter
- Don't get defensive or upset
The Silence Test
At some point during the date, she might become quiet or seem less interested to see how you react.
How to pass:
- Don't become a "dancing monkey" trying to entertain her
- Be comfortable with silence
- Continue the conversation naturally when she re-engages
The Post-Date Test
After a seemingly good date, she might pull back or become less responsive.
How to pass:
- Don't panic or bombard her with messages
- Maintain your cool and continue living your life
- Give her space and time to miss you
Advanced Strategies
The No-Kiss Strategy
Contrary to popular advice, consider not going for a kiss on the first date. This can:
- Maintain mystery
- Make her wonder about your interest level
- Potentially increase her desire for a second date
Patience is Key
Understand that sometimes it takes time to build attraction and comfort. Don't expect every interaction to lead immediately to intimacy. Be willing to play the long game if necessary.
Always Be Dating
While pursuing one woman, continue to:
- Meet new people
- Go on dates with other women
- Focus on your personal goals and passions
This ensures you maintain an abundance mindset and don't become overly invested too quickly.
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Desperation
Don't:
- Double text
- Always be available
- Agree to last-minute plans
- Tolerate disrespectful behavior
Overinvestment
Avoid:
- Planning elaborate first dates
- Talking about the future too soon
- Neglecting other aspects of your life
Misreading Signals
Don't assume:
- A busy schedule means she's not interested
- Playing hard to get is always a sign of attraction
- Physical intimacy on the first date is necessary for success
Building Long-Term Success
While these strategies can help you pass initial tests and increase your chances of success, remember that building genuine connections requires:
- Authenticity
- Emotional intelligence
- Clear communication
- Mutual respect
As you become more confident and experienced in dating, you'll find that passing these tests becomes second nature. You'll be able to navigate the complexities of early dating with ease, increasing your chances of finding fulfilling relationships.
Conclusion
Mastering the art of passing women's tests in dating is a valuable skill that can significantly improve your success rate. By maintaining an abundance mindset, focusing on self-improvement, and understanding common tests, you'll be well-equipped to navigate the dating world with confidence.
Remember, the goal isn't to manipulate or deceive, but to present your best, most authentic self. With practice and patience, you'll find that these strategies not only help you pass tests but also attract high-quality partners who appreciate your confidence and self-assurance.
Stay true to yourself, keep working on personal growth, and approach dating with a positive, abundance-focused mindset. With time and experience, you'll find the success and fulfillment you're seeking in your dating life.
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