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13 Texting Mistakes That Ruin Your Chances With Women

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The Art of Texting Women

Texting has become a pivotal part of modern dating, serving as a primary mode of communication in the initial stages of getting to know someone. However, certain texts can drastically diminish your chances with women. Here are 13 types of texts you should steer clear of if you're interested in someone.

1. The "Good Morning" Text

While it might seem like a sweet gesture, sending a 'Good Morning' text too soon can come off as overly intimate. It's advisable to save such messages for when you're more established in the relationship.

2. The Triple Text

Sending three consecutive texts without a reply screams desperation. If she hasn't responded after two messages, it's better to hold off on sending more.

3. Emoji Overload

Using an excessive number of emojis can appear childish and overwhelming. Stick to using emojis that enhance the message subtly without overshadowing the text itself.

4. The "Hey" Text

This lacks effort and engagement. A simple 'Hey' does not start a meaningful conversation and often leads nowhere.

5. Close-Ended Questions

Questions that elicit short responses do not foster engaging conversations. Aim for open-ended questions that encourage longer replies and more profound interaction.

6. The Essay Text

Long, rambling texts can be tedious to read and respond to. Keep your messages concise and to the point, ideally between one to four lines.

7. Unsolicited Pictures

Never send explicit images unless explicitly requested by your partner—a major turn-off for most women when unsolicited.

8. The "Send Nudes" Request

This is often perceived as forward and inappropriate unless you have an established relationship where such interactions are welcome.

9. Direct Date Invitations Without Confidence

The way you ask someone out matters; instead of questioning if they would like to go out, propose plans confidently.

10. Indecisive Messages

Decisiveness is attractive; avoid appearing unsure about plans or decisions as it may suggest lack of confidence or direction.

11 &12 . Interrogation or Overly Romantic Messages

Avoid bombarding her with too many personal questions or overly romantic declarations early on—both can be overwhelming and potentially off-putting.

The key takeaway from these points is understanding that texting should be balanced—neither too overbearing nor too underwhelming—and should always respect the other person’s space and comfort levels.

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